It’s not too amazing that parents should have profound revelations about our relationship with God and how we represent Him to our children.
My latest revelation was a few weeks ago. Therese and I were in the house and I’m sure I left something on the table that I really wouldn’t want her to have. When I saw her with it…of course I’m sure I said “no,” or “mommy doesn’t want you to have that,” or “that’s not for Therese to play with.” But I remember sitting back thinking…”well, duh! I left it on the table for her to be tempted by it.”
So even though she wrote on my natural wood colored desk with a pencil (that I left out)…and wrote on the coffee table with crayons (that I did not supervise). None of that was really her fault. In fact, I led her into the temptation of doing it by not being more mindful of what I leave out and where she’s taking things. Of course I tell her, we only color in the coloring book or write on paper. But I still have a crucial part to play.
I realize the importance of praying the “Our Father.” We ask God that we may not be tempted by the evil one (“…and lead us not into temptation”). But even more, my children, whether they can verbalize it or not, need that same guidance. The guidacne that we as parents may not lead them into a situation that would tempt them to sin and later we would repremand them for.
I guess that’s where the whole philosphy of “redirection” comes in.
Category: Faith
Comments off