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Reflection on the holy innocent

A couple of friends now have sent me this.  Thank you Eddie, and Jenny.  I found it beautiful and a reminder of God’s goodness.  May all our little ones in heaven pray for us!

Why, my Lord—dare I ask why? It will not hear the whisper of the wind or see the beauty of its parents’ face—it will not see the beauty of Your creation or the flame of a sunrise. Why, my Lord?
“Why, My child—do you ask ‘why’? Well, I will tell you why. You see, the child lives. Instead of the wind he hears the sound of angels singing before My throne. Instead of the beauty that passes he sees everlasting Beauty—he sees My face. He was created and lived a short time so the image of his parents imprinted on his face may stand before Me as their personal intercessor. He knows secrets of heaven unknown to men on earth. He laughs with a special joy that only the innocent possess. My ways are not the ways of man. I create for My Kingdom and each creature fills a place in that Kingdom that could not be filled by another. He was created for My joy and his parents’ merits. He has never seen pain or sin. He has never felt hunger or pain. I breathed a soul into a seed, made it grow and called it forth.”

I am humbled before you, my Lord, for questioning Your wisdom, goodness, and love. I speak as a fool—forgive me. I acknowledge Your sovereign rights over life and death. I thank You for the life that began for so short a time to enjoy so long an Eternity. — Mother M. Angelica

Birthday Brew

Wow.

That’s all I can say. Wow. My friends really know me all too well – and truly love me. All week long I have been blessed with an overflowing mug of malty goodness from friends wishing me a joyful birthday. As of today I have received:

In addition I already had a selection of Abita’s Turbodog and Amber on hand.

Not to be outdone, my wonderful wife gifted me with related reading material:

Isn’t she the greatest? I don’t know yet if this will be a hobby I’ll pursue. From an economical standpoint, it’s a wash. Homebrewing is purely done for entertainment and crafting pleasure.

Getting back to the beer in my home, I’d love to share a pint with ya. Sharon has this strange idea that I won’t be able to handle it all on my own. I know, after nearly six years you think she’d know me by now :) . Anyway, we’ll be here all Thanksgiving week so come on by when you have some time and let’s have a toast to friendship. Prost!

Cardinal Ratzinger enjoying a brew

Happy Birthday Pookie!

Today, my Pookie Bear, turns another year older!  His age is the sum of four times Therese’s age*, five times Fulton’s age*, Gianna’s age* and the number of years we’ve been married (5 years).  [*Note: use the greatest integer function for the children's ages.]

Happy Birthday sweetheart and may all God’s love and blessings be upon you this year!

“Let’s pray…”

After a couple of weeks of reminders from Therese that we needed to make new homeless bags, we finally got them done last night.  Of course, I forgot to actually put them in the van.

So on our way back from church this morning, we saw a homeless man and the light was green and we didn’t have a bag in the car.  Lost in my thought and “to-dos,” I simply said to Therese, “Remind me to put the bags in the car when we get home.”

After turning the corner, she replies, “Mommy, let’s pray a Hail Mary for him.”

Hail Mary, full of grace. The Lord is with thee.  Blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus.  Holy Mary, mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death.

Lord, bless those tonight without a home or food.  Surround them with your love and mercy.  Send your angels to minister to their needs.  And as the nights grow colder help them to find warmth and shelter.  In Jesus’ name we pray.  Amen.

This is Joy

…sporting a new bike helmet every chance he gets….

…taking her place as princess and loving it…

… 5 full PLATES of beignets gone in less than half an hour (and it was only our family. Better come early on Sunday if you want some)…

…a new look for our home…and we love it!

Thank you

My heartfelt thanks to all of you for your prayers, consolations and beautiful words of support for our family.  I get all teary thinking of the blessing God has given us through your friendship. Many thanks to Alexis for taking care of the kids this morning while we went to the hospital.

God is so good.  Adam has been so wonderful. God could not have blessed me with a greater husband.  Thank you, dearest, for your blessing last night.   The kids have been very understanding and just bringing me book after book to read in bed.

All seemed to have gone well this morning.  My blood pressure which was very high for the last couple of weeks was normal when went in.  Your prayers have certainly brought a great deal of peace to my aching soul.  Thank you to Fr. Abraham for the annointing, Fr. Tim–your phone call meant so much, and the Srs. of Mary for storming Heaven.

Jesus I trust in you.

Gerard Francis, pray for us.

Michael Joseph, pray for us.

Gerard Francis Gretencord

Tuesday we learned that Baby G V, died.  We would have been 9 weeks pregnant this week.  We were hopeful a couple of weeks ago when our ultrasound showed a beating heart.  But our baby didn’t develop past 6w 1d.  God had different plans for this baby and our family.

We named him Gerard Francis because we learned about our little blessing on the Feast of St. Gerard, and Francis because of all the animals that have been attracted to our home (and Fulton’s fascination with St. Francis).

Tomorrow morning at 9 a.m. I will go into surgery for a D&C.  I opted this route because our last miscarriage was rather traumatic and I didn’t want to go through that again with the kids around.  I’m scared but I think this is the best thing for our family.  Thank you for any prayers you can offer.

Traumatized

I officially don’t like irresponsible dog owners.

Fulton and Therese were traumatized on Friday by a dog who’s owner did not have it on a leash while she was out for a jog.  Unfortunately she couldn’t keep up with her canine and it ran straight for us while I was taking the kids on a bike ride.  The dog was about the size of Fulton and of course, the kids started screaming.  I asked the owner to put her leash on her dog–which she didn’t do even after that because we saw the pair again on our way home.

Most of you who have dogs know that the kids weren’t big fans of these animals to begin with.  The most unfortunate part of this all, is that my kids were scared today to go out on a bike ride.  They were peddling slow and apprehensive at every corner.  Therese wouldn’t take the lead like she usually does.  Fulton even said, “I don’t want to go that way. The dog might come out.”  I took them that particular route anyway, assuring them that it would be safe and I wouldn’t let anything happen to them.   And now they are even more weary just passes houses where we know there are dogs.  Their joy in biking riding is gone in less than a couple of weeks.

I know they are well meaning when dog owners say, “oh, my dog is nice. It wouldn’t hurt you.”  Quite frankly, we don’t know your dogs and they don’t know us. And you never know what a dog will do when faced with a 5 year old screaming kid.

So what to do (beside carry pepper spray)?  How do I keep the kids from going completely bonkers when they see a dog? And there’s NO WAY we’re getting a dog to get the kids used to them.

Nailed ‘em!

The critter was indeed a rat, yet a small one at that… no Di, I will not get a cat… in a hat.

Ok, I’ll stop now.

But yes, he has been caught. Sharon brought home 3 rat traps. I placed two in the attic knowing it was a long shot that the rat would be hanging around up there on occasion. The third I went directly to the source.

I removed the air vent cover from our bedroom ceiling, unlatched and pushed back the flexible duct pipe, and slipped the rat trap above the ceiling. I tied a piece of kite string to the trap and set the spool on an unstable surface in our room. Two reasons for doing this: 1) it would serve as a telltale that the trap had been moved the slightest bit 2) in case the trap was a bit slow in doing it’s work and the rat tried to drag it off, I would have something to pull it back in.

Thanks Allen for the great advice. The cotton-cheese ball worked like a champ. Marc, the same technique might work for those campaigners…

Wildlife Refuge

This is seriously getting ridiculous.  For some reason little animals like our yard, deck and house.  Some bloggers out there find it amusing when little animals come visit their home and quietly depart.  I wouldn’t mind, if the animals that come to our property would in fact depart without eating the veggies from our garden, eating our trees to death, scaring the bugeebers out of me, or pecking out the wood from out siding!

In our almost 6 year living in this wildlife refuge we’ve seen:

  • squirrels, of course
  • an owl
  • a swarm of honey bees (no offense dear Roses)
  • wasps
  • bag worms
  • these red hornet looking things
  • a raccoon
  • a woodpecker
  • a couple of snakes
  • a rat (I hate rats–they are SO not in my job description)

But the line has been crossed…either a squirrel or a rat is in our house between the upstairs and downstairs.  We can hear the pitter patter of its little feet running across our bedroom ceiling.  And of course my beloved husband decided to point this out to me around 3 a.m. this morning.

Worst case scenario, that animal dies in our walls…oh that would be so so bad.

I’m seriously considering doing something about that St. Francis statue outside!

If you have any SERIOUS suggestions of what to do, please comment.

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