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Covenant of Love

Last weekend when many of you were at the local Mass, march and Rally for Life, Adam and I were at our parish Covenant of Love marriage ministry kickoff–a day retreat.  We discerned that we wanted to take up a leadership role in this ministry because we sincerely believe in strengthening marriage and we believe in the program that Greg and Julie Alexander developed after they bounced back from divorce into the arms of living their Catholic faith.  Many of you know they created the Alexander House and are now based in San Antonio.

Many of you also know that Julie suffered a heart attack late last year and truly a miraculous recovery.  I started crying when I saw her on Saturday, overjoyed that God has chosen to continue to use her and Greg to heal marriages.

We had a lovely time even though we had some duties to do for the retreat. And a couple of things became apparent during the retreat. When it comes to marriage, there’s no such thing as “preaching to the choir.” I think Adam and I are blessed with a WONDERFUL marriage, but we still walked away with some valuable insight into how we can fulfill each others needs and love each other more. Secondly, its important to have support in our vocation.  We are blessed with so many friends who are trying to living holy marriages, but not everyone is so blessed.  We need to be a light to the world of the joy and peace in living a God-centered marriage.

The Alexander House is very blessed to be in San Antonio as many doors have opened to them there. Fox 29 did a story on them yesterday! (Click on ‘Discovering the Covenant of Love’.) To the credit of Fox 29, they even included a piece in the segment on how contraception hurts marriage.  Bravo to them for keeping that in the segment!

Please continue to prayer for the Alexanders and their ministry.

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When did this happen?

I just looked over admiring my sweet baby and realized she’s not a baby anymore.  Gianna knows how to play with the play kitchen we gave the kids for Epiphany as she puts a hotdog in the pretend microwave.  She brings us books to read her now more than the other kids.  She loves to dance as you might recall from the past video.  She decided she doesn’t like green beans but carrots are good. And she’s talking!  She’s 16 month and saying more words than either of her sibling were saying at this age.  Her vocabulary includes:  dada, mama, hello, bye, up, down, go, fish, apple, nana (for banana), wawa, eyes, nose, toes, shoes, duck, neigh, cheese, sock, bear, ball, and flag.

Our littlest one is grow up too. But she’ll always be our little muffin.

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Portable Drill Batteries

Every common homeowner who owns a portable drill has probably dealt with a dead battery. The primary reason they die is lack of use. There are plenty of discussions on “memory effect” to be found online if you are interested in the science behind the reason. Personally, I found many of the explanations to be contradictory and some outright dismissive of the argument, but I digress. The fact remains that I had an unusable drill and my wife needed new shades to be installed.

There are two options to correct a dead battery problem:

  1. Buy a new replacement
  2. Rebuild the dead battery

Buying a new replacement battery can be rather expensive. That’s why it’s advisable to either purchase a corded drill or one that offers affordable battery replacements if you won’t be using it frequently. Perhaps unwisely, I didn’t do either. I own a DeWALT DC727 which I found for a good price on eBay. A new battery pack runs at $52.55 on Amazon.com.

The other option is to have a dead battery rebuilt with new cells. BatteriesPlus here in Austin would do the job for $50. Obviously in this case there is hardly any savings with the rebuild. However, being the frugal person that I am, I began to wonder if it was possible to do the rebuild myself.

I first disassembled the battery pack and learned that it would require 10 rechargeable NiCd 4/5 Sub C cells (I found the size by measuring the height and diameter of one of the cells). I was about to purchase a set from BatterySpace.com before I managed to find a set of 20 on eBay for $35.50; now I would be able to rebuild both of my dead batteries.

Now came the hard lesson – soldering the batteries together is a pain. First of all, the batteries came with the necessary tabs to connect them, however half of them had to be popped off because they needed to be reoriented in the proper configuration. Second, the batteries came precharged so it wasn’t difficult to shock myself while lining them up. Third, the solder would not hold the tabs. Roughing the terminals up a bit with sandpaper aided some, but not sufficiently. By the time I had them decently attached, the slightest excess of solder buildup prevented the outer case lid from shutting tight. All in all, I spent over 3 hours of fruitless labor on this task before throwing in the towel.

At this point my only saving grace came after I set aside my pride. I humbled myself, picked up the second set of batteries and the case, and headed over to BatteriesPlus. They installed the cells for $16.

So, excluding the time lost on trying to do it myself, a single battery rebuild came out to be $33.75. That’s a savings of $18.80.

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Family Picture and more!

So on our excursion to Gruene last week, we took this picture:

It was a lot of fun dressing up and Fulton’s look on this picture is classic!  I think the wild west look kind of suites my husband.  Adam’s sister, Mary, said that dad finally got to “live his ‘Gunsmoke’ dream.”  Fr. Tim still ended up in black–just not black clerics.

Gianna interpreting John Paul II’s meaning of the “gift of self.”

The Gretencord granchildren (minus Marc).

And Therese hold her new cousin, Grace Marie…too cute!

And my beloved and I at Mayfield park.

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Happy Birthday

Happy Birthday to our sweet little flower, Therese.  Oh how you’ve grown and changed over the last 5 years!  You were born with a firey spirit and I pray that the Holy Spirit will grow strong in you.  We love you so much–your kindness and gentleness, the way your heart and mind are always on Jesus, and the song you always have in your heart that you share with us.  We pray that you will always have the gift of faith and love of God and His Church.

We love you!

You on your real “birthday”. Jan 16, 2004.

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You, today, January 16, 2009

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6 years and the yearly visit

Last Sunday was our 6 year anniversary.  The night before we attended a marriage renewal put on by some Regnum Christi friends and we renewed our wedding vows–which was extra sweet since it was the vigil of our anniversary.  There are many days when I can’t imagine loving Adam anymore than I already do, and God surprises me and shows me how I can. Thank you dearest Father in Heaven for blessing us with the Sacrament of matrimony and the love we share with you and each other.

And being January and the birth of another Gretencord grandchild, it’s also time for the yearly visit from Mom and Dad Gretencord and Fr. Tim.  And it’s an extra special trip because we’ll be baptizing our niece, Grace, on Saturday.  Mom, Dad and Father spent the last few days with us.  We took some trips to the Austin Children’s Museum (thanks to Julie for the membership!) on Tuesday, and yesterday we went to New Braunfels and Gruene before parting ways until the baptism.

Here are some of the highlights of our life since Sunday:

Gianna sporting some shades.  I think she looks like a little Jackie-O with Mrs. Kress’ shades.

Grandma sported all the kids with shades by Monday morning!

At the Austin Children’s Museum, Fulton made a beeline to the Metro Rail driver’s seat.

Open wide!

“You see, Grandpa, the wheels with more friction will lose energy and stop first.”

Singing the blues at Austin Kiddie Limits!

At the top of Mt. Bonnell.

The whole fam!

(In Gruene) The two most handsome guys on the planet…my beloved and my son.

The kids really treasure these visit and will have blessed memories of grandma, grandpa, and Fr. Tim’s visits, Father saying mass at our home and the field trips of family bliss.  And the adults equally reminisce of the the funniest moments of past visits and how this all started 6 years ago when we said, “I do.”

Hark The Herald Angels Sing… and Dance

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HyperDash

Okay, I found a game that requires batteries that I like! It’s called Hyper Dash. I bought this for my nephew, who sits and plays video games all day, so that he can get some exercise. Adam, my nieces, Therese and Fulton and I played it at my parents’ house during Christmas. We love it!

It’s a great game for exercise and stimulating the brain. You set out the targets in your playing field (yard or home) and then you follow the commands of the Hyper voice to tag the targets. The controller times you, and the person or team with the fastest speed wins. The game can also be played at a table. For those of us who don’t have the budget for a Wii and it’s many games, this is a simple alternative. I quite like it.

So far Adam is the fastest person in the house. It’s a good workout to try to beat him, but I don’t think I will anytime soon.

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Martha and Mary

As they continued their journey [Jesus] entered a village where a woman whose name was Martha welcomed him. Lk 10: 38

This is the first moment we encounter the figure of Martha in the Gospels. From this initial meeting we can see she is a kind woman in her welcoming of Jesus to her village. But why Martha? Was she chairperson of the Village of Bethany Welcoming Committee? Or rather perhaps she already heard something about this great man and wanted to meet him personally. But just how much did she know about Jesus? We know later that she confesses his divinity (Jn 11:27) but did she hold that same understanding now? Therefore, there are two possible reasons as to why she extended an invitation to him: 1) she truly knew who he was and/or 2) she wanted to come to know him.

She had a sister named Mary (who) sat beside the Lord at his feet listening to him speak. Lk 10: 39

Now we meet Martha’s sister, Mary. Why did she not come to welcome Christ earlier? Did she not yet know of this new prophet? Surely, being Martha’s sister, she had to have some inclination of this man. Could she have already been at home preparing and hopefully anticipating the arrival of a guest? Regardless, we now see that her entire focus is on the words of her guest who has indeed accepted Martha’s invitation.

We’re already familiar with the significance of her position at the master’s feet but I will offer another rumination: consider today’s schools. From an early age we literally sit at the feet of our teachers beginning at kindergarten. As we progress we trade the carpet mats for desks – or our “intellectual workbench” if you will – so that we can begin practicing what the teacher hands down to us. However, progressing further I now think of the great lecture halls common in many universities. In these vast rooms, we are no longer at the master’s feet. In fact, he is literally at ours. We look down upon him, placing a greater burden onto him, expecting him to deliver up to us the knowledge we think we rightly deserve. Do you know what other facility has this same seating arrangement? A theater. The expectation is what is placed down below should be entertaining what is placed above. And dare I say isn’t it troubling that many of our modern churches are now architected in this same format?

Martha, burdened with much serving, came to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me by myself to do the serving? Tell her to help me.” Lk 10: 40

I don’t think Martha fully anticipated the consequences of extending an invitation to Jesus of Nazareth. What she got was an open house. To clarify, I can’t imagine Martha being burdened with the amount of serving required for a single guest. What must of transpired is that the populace of Bethany showed up at her doorstep when they got wind of who was present in her home. To Martha’s credit, the kind person that she is, she couldn’t simply send them away. What would the Lord of all Kindness say in response? And on the same accord it would be unthinkable for the host to ask Jesus to leave. From her perspective, the only reasonable thing to do was to don the apron and get to work.

But why was it that she felt she was compelled to “serve” these people? Was it an outward or inward coercion? To put it another way, was it what was expected of a host or did Martha feel like it was something that “had” to be done?

Regardless, Martha decided that serving is what needed to be done. Any hope of spending time with Jesus would have to wait until later. We can tell immediately though that she is not pleased with her course of action – she sees her work as a burden. Furthermore, she is doing it herself and is troubled when she finds her sister – could it truly be – turning a blind eye to Martha? Does she not live under the same roof and therefore be under the same obligation to tend to the guests? Obviously, this perturbed Martha deeply and she felt compelled to do something about it.

Before going further, let’s prepare an analogy. Imagine that you are standing outside the door of a classroom and the teacher is already in the midst of delivering a lesson. You so happen at that very moment require the use of an attentive student sitting in the front row. There is no way to obtain her presence without disrupting the session already in progress. With that being said, there are two courses of action you can take in removing the student. One is to approach the student directly, convey your need of her presence, and exit the classroom with the student in tow. The problem with that course is that the perceived fault from both the teacher and the class would fall squarely on you. You alone are made out to be the perpetrator. The second approach, however, is a bit more cunning. You can enter the classroom and first plead your case to the teacher. Surely the master will listen carefully because what you have to say must be of great importance since you saw it necessary to interrupt the lesson. Upon hearing your plea for assistance the teacher will fully understand, agree, and – perhaps with a bit of contempt for her wrongful arrangement of priorities – dismiss the student to tend to her rightful duties. Therefore, the fault for the disruption slides off you and onto the student. You are now the victim. It is this later option that Martha had chosen and entered the classroom…

The Lord said to her in reply, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and worried about many things. Lk 10: 41

The Lord first responds graciously. Martha must have felt a bit reprieved now that the master acknowledged her anxiety. However, now it is time for her lesson…

There is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part and it will not be taken from her.” Lk 10: 42

And now we must contemplate Martha’s reaction. Did she hang her head low and sulk to the back of the room? Did she continue serving or perhaps take a seat at the back of the class? Was her heart now full of bitterness, shoulders bearing guilt, and head reeling from being “put in her place”?

Or did Martha take a more humble response? Perhaps she came to understand the master’s words, recognized her own fault in the matter, and took a seat upon the floor by her sister.

The truth is we don’t know, and perhaps it is a good thing. It gives us a chance to reflect on what our own response would be when we find ourselves in Martha’s role.

For further reflection:

  • For what reason should I invite Christ into my heart and home?
  • Am I already prepared for Jesus’s arrival or do I plan on waiting for the last minute?
  • What is my expectation from the master? Do I sit at his feet looking for Wisdom or do I stand above him seeking unwarranted endowments?
  • Do I see it as a burden or a joy when I serve the Lord and his people?
  • How do I perceive the Christian life of my bothers and sisters in faith? Do I think they spend too much time in prayer and not enough action?
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Happy New Year

May your year be filled with all the grace you need to accept all your joys and suffering as a child of God.